Yes! Lubricant is free through for anyone under the age of 26 living in Maryland. To order lubricant, you should use the Violet order form linked in the Violet Store.

This is probably because you are not in the mood for sex, which is totally fine. Not everybody has a strong sex drive, which is what we call someone's desire for sex. Among the things that can affect a person's sex drive is their age, their state of mind, how they're feeling, stressors going on in their life, not meeting the right person, their past experiences, not wanting sex, being asexual, etc....the list can go on. If you do not want to have sex, you likely have your own

Good question! Some pain when you feel turned on is normal and can be felt in a couple of places. Long story short, if you have female reproductive organs, this is likely because of tightening pelvic floor muscles or vaginal contractions in response to stimulation. If you have male reproductive organs, it could be a result of all the blood flow going to your testes or penis when you get turned on. Some people can also feel some stomach pain when they get turned on because of

We've received this question before (it's a very good question)! For more information, you can learn more about sexual decision making and pleasure here. During sex, you can do a number of different things that go beyond penetrative sex that is penis-in-vagina. Many sexual partners, particularly members of the LGBTQ+ community, choose to engage in other forms of sex. These forms include: Oral sex: Oral sex involves using your mouth and tongue to stimulate the genitals and/or

There are many different things you can do during sex, and what sex is can be different for everyone. Very generally, you can think of sex as anything that makes you feel "turned on" and feel good in an intimate way. Sex can be masturbation, where you touch your own genitals, either by yourself or with a partner. Sex can be oral, vaginal, or anal. Oral sex uses one's mouth to stimulate a partner's genitals. Vaginal and anal sex are both penetrative, meaning that vaginal sex i

It is possible to get pregnant the first time you have sex if you do not use birth control (condoms, diaphragms, IUD, etc.) and you are in the ovulating window of your menstrual cycle. Pregnancy can happen any time male ejaculate, or sperm, gets into the vagina or vulva. This is why it is super important to use birth control every time you have sex if you do not want to get pregnant.

The right time is when you want to and feel comfortable about having sex. There is no checklist of requirements for knowing when is the right time to have sex. However, it is super important that you do not feel pressured to have sex, that you and your partner are both consenting to have sex together, and that you feel comfortable about the decision. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to have sex – but sex should never make you feel bad, disrespected or fear. Communicat