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If I use both condoms and birth control, does it decrease my chance of pregnancy? Is it better than just one?
Yes, using both condoms and another form of birth control will further decrease your chance of pregnancy! There are many forms of contraceptives (e.g., pills, IUD, implant, hormonal vs non-hormonal). Many methods will prevent pregnancy around 99% of the time. Condoms have the added bonus of also preventing the spread of STIs (sexually transmitted infections)! Condoms are 97% effective at preventing pregnancy if used perfectly, or approximately 82% effective when factoring in

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Feb 91 min read
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Are the abortion pill and the morning after pill the same thing?
No, the morning after pill and the abortion pill are not the same thing. The morning after pill (e.g., Plan B), is a pill you take within 72 hours after having sex to PREVENT a pregnancy from happening. It is emergency birth control. It contains either levonorgestrel or ulipristal acetate to ensure a fertilized egg does not implant in the uterus. This prevents pregnancy from starting. The abortion pill is a pill you take AFTER getting pregnant. In the early stages of a pregna
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Dec 1, 20251 min read
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Is it safer to use 2 condoms to prevent pregnancy?
No, it is not better to use two condoms. In fact, two condoms can cause friction between the condoms and make it easier for the condoms to break. Using two condoms, therefore, can increase the risk of pregnancy. Do not use two condoms! This includes using two external condoms (ones that go on the penis), or using an internal and external condom together (an internal condom is one that goes inside the vagina/anus).
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Dec 1, 20251 min read
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Where can I get Plan B?
Plan B, or the morning after pill, is a brand of emergency contraceptive pills, which you can take within a few days after having sex to prevent pregnancy. To get emergency contraceptive pills, or Plan B, you can go to your local pharmacy. They do NOT require a prescription. Some universities or local organizations, such as health departments, may be able to provide this for free or low-cost as well. Emergency contraceptive pills are more effective the sooner they are taken a
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Jul 10, 20251 min read
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What kind of birth control should I use?
There are a lot of different birth control options to choose from - and deciding what is best for you depends on what you are looking for! For example, taking a birth control pill can help with hormonal acne and other concerns. However, if you don't want to have to remember to take a pill every day, you may want to consider an IUD or other option. Also, barrier methods, such as condoms, are the ONLY option that also prevent sexually transmitted infections. To learn what is be

Nellie
Feb 2, 20251 min read
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If I had protected sex on my period over a month ago and still haven't gotten my period, will I be okay?
With this specific question, we cannot give a specific answer to your situation as there are a lot of variables, but we will answer as best we can! First, there are a lot of reasons your period may be delayed, especially if you are not on a birth control method (e.g., the pill) that makes your periods regular. Even stress or heavy exercise can affect your period. You know your body best and how long your cycle normally is, so use this as a comparison! Having sex on your perio

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Dec 4, 20241 min read
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How can I perform safe sex as a lesbian?
Safe sex between two women, or two men, is very similar to the ways that are taught about sex between a man and woman! Condoms work as a barrier, which prevents skin-to-skin contact and therefore helps prevent the spread of STIs. For oral sex (mouth to genital), while a condom can be used on a penis, for a woman, a dental dam is a good option! Dental dams create a barrier and therefore help prevent STIs. If you do not have a dental dam, you can cut a condom lengthwise along o

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Aug 6, 20241 min read
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